by Pascale Lane | Jan 4, 2020 | Uncategorised
https://youtu.be/ciZSj4FBjsc Now this might seem counterintuitive but it actually resonates with and I think this is the same for a lot of people. Once you’ve set your goals, what happens if you achieve them? What happens if you actually make your dreams become your...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 15, 2019 | Uncategorised
Ironically, the biggest miscommunication is lack of communication. So what do I mean by this? Well, often couples can fall into the trap of assuming that the other person knows what they’re thinking. I speak and write about this quite a lot because communication (or...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 15, 2019 | Uncategorised
Okay so the second objection to achieving your goals is often fear. Now this can be in two parts. The part I’m going to concentrate on today is a fear of failure. What happens when we put ourselves out there, to really wanting to achieve something, as I...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 15, 2019 | Uncategorised
So what prevents you from reaching your goals? In the next six part series, I’m going to be looking at the obstacles and objections that might be coming up for you in regards to reaching your goal. Now the first one that might seem like the most obvious one is...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 14, 2019 | Uncategorised
What is an enabler and are you one? An enabler is somebody who helps their loved one, partner in the case of my work, to be helpless, to be rescued. In situations where one partner is always, or not always but usually, the victim, with that comes a rescuer and even...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 8, 2019 | Uncategorised
This is a bit of a tough one isn’t it because in many ways this goes against all of the things that I would be recommending when working with a couple on or an individual in our coaching sessions, but sometimes there is a time and a place for emotional...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 6, 2019 | Uncategorised
❣️ Now we’ve touched on these in a previous video but this is doing new things together. ❣️ ❣️ Now I spoke I think it was video 2 where I spoke about making memories and this is a similar kind of thing but this is just taking it to the next level.. What are the...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 6, 2019 | Uncategorised
Surprise each other! How often do you or your partner do something out of the blue? Now I don’t necessarily mean great big grand gestures, although if my husband is listening and he wants to wisk me away to Venice for the weekend that would be lovely! But...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 4, 2019 | Uncategorised
❤️ Touch each other! ❤️ Be affectionate! ❤️ Be intimate! ❤️ How often are you guys getting into bed at the end of the day and realising that you haven’t really properly connected? I’m not talking about wild crazy sex or even lacklustre sex. It...
by Pascale Lane | Oct 2, 2019 | Uncategorised
❤️ Gratitude and Affirmations ❤️ You’ve probably figured out by now, I’m big on gratitude and affirmations. I think it is so worthwhile to be able to show appreciation to your partner and in fact, show appreciation to everyone! We all like to hear that we are...
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