You see other women in similar roles to you oozing with confidence and you want the same for yourself, but it feels so hard
They look like they’ve got it all down to a tee… The career, the family, the lifestyle…
They never look frazzled… like they’re just about holding it together
It looks so easy for them doesn’t it?
You’re not looking at them with jealousy… It’s more like wonder
Have a hell do they do it? How the hell do they hold everything down and still look so great?
And still smiling and laughing… They look so calm and ‘flowey’
And you’d like a bit of that too right?
I mean let’s be honest, we all want a bit of that somewhere in our lives
But when you’re not rushing around, doing your job and caring for your family, you wonder how you’re keeping it all together
The high power job, family life, getting the kids to school on time, after-school clubs… etc…
Let alone the time for yourself to be You…
It feels so out there to think that you can have it for yourself
You wonder if you’ll ever be that good…
Whether you’ll ever have it all together
Job, family, husband, children… Let alone friends, hobbies, self-care…
It hurts to even think about it
Is it a confidence issue? Are you good enough for it?
Is this a ability deficit or is this about having the confidence to step up and embody the wonderful woman that you are?
There is so much pressure on women to do it all and have it all…
It’s absolutely exhausting and let’s be honest, at times, debilitating
You wonder how you can fit it all in… I mean you’d love to, but you can’t comprehend How it could be
What would it look like for you to have it all?
I don’t mean the high power job and the beautiful family… You probably have that already
I’m talking about the confidence to be able to trust yourself enough to go for the things that are important to you
To be able to speak up for yourself and put boundaries around your time and energy, so that you were able to prioritise yourself once in awhile
How does that feel?
I get it! I’ve been there… My clients have been there…
We’re all just doing our best, right?
When I work with my clients 1-1, we go through all of this together
Because more often than not, it is a confidence issue
More often than not, experiences from our past have shaped how we think and feel about ourselves
What we think we are worthy of and whether or not we have the confidence to go and get it
95% of my clients will have an unresolved issue from the past that they need to shine a light on and work through in order to embody and embrace the fabulous woman that they are
With my unique blend of counselling and coaching, this is exactly what we do
We do the past work… We have to… Because that’s where our story begins
And then we move forward on to coaching and week by week, we move you into the life that you want for yourself…
The career, the family, the lifestyle…
The best version of You!
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