From Walking on Eggshells to Feeling Like Teammates Again
The 60-Minute Communication Reset for Couples Who Want to Make It Work
The proven framework for talking about the hard stuff without it turning into a fight - so you can feel seen, heard, and like you're finally on the same page
Finally, say goodbye to conversations that go nowhere. No more:
❌ Feeling misunderstood, ignored or dismissed
❌ Walking on eggshells to avoid conflict
❌ Repeating the same arguments again and again
❌ Feeling alone, and disconnected from the person you love
Having helped hundreds of individuals & COUPLES, here's what I know...
Most couples genuinely want to make it work. You're not looking for an exit - you're looking for a way back to each other.
And you've probably already tried the usual advice:
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"Just communicate more openly."
"Use 'I statements' instead of 'you statements.'"
"Schedule weekly check-ins."
"Go to therapy."
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Maybe it helped... for a little while.
But then you're right back where you started.
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Here's why:
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Those tactics assume the problem is what you're saying.
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But the real issue is how you're wired to respond to each other - the automatic patterns that kick in before you even realize it.
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When one person speaks, the other hears criticism.
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When one person tries to explain, the other feels attacked.
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When one person withdraws, the other feels abandoned.
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These aren't conscious choices - they're deeply ingrained patterns shaped by how you learned to communicate, handle conflict, and protect yourself emotionally.
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So no amount of "better communication tips" will work if the underlying pattern stays the same.
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That's why this training doesn't give you scripts or exercises.
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Instead, you'll learn to recognize and rewire the patterns themselves - so communication naturally becomes easier, calmer, and actually brings you closer together.
Communicate, Connect & Create Intimacy
A 60 minute transformative training experience that will take you from feeling unheard, disconnected and stuck to being understood, connected and aligned as a team.
Buy now for just $27In this training, you’re going to learn how to:
- Build communication that strengthens trust, closeness and intimacy
- Understand your partner’s communication style so you stop taking things personally
- Break habits that cause shutdowns, defensiveness or misunderstandingsÂ
- Express thoughts and feelings in a way that feels honest and calm
- Listen so your partner feels valued instead of judged or dismissed
Hi, I'm Pascale Lane
I’m a Therapeutic Relationship Coach.
Over the years, I have helped hundreds of individuals and couples to improve their relationships, communication, intimacy and self-confidence by using my unique methodology to not only create positive shifts, but lasting change.Â
My clients regularly improve not only their relationship with their partner, but also with their family, friends, peers and most importantly, the one with themselves.
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See what others are saying...
"slowly but surely we started to reconnect"
“She helped us discover a lot about ourselves, and amazingly (to me) slowly but surely we started to reconnect. In a new way and improved way.”
"We were even intimate again for the first time in years"
 "We have had conversations that we should have had years ago. We have gone from living as housemates to being a couple again. We were even intimate again for the first time in years. I never thought it would have been possible, but here we are"Â
"Love and laughter fills our home again"
 “Thank you for all you have done for us so far….Because of your wisdom and classic one-liners, things are looking up for us…Love and laughter fills our home again…There are still away to go but I am hopeful and the kids are happy”