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Go from feeling stuck in your relationship to creating the connection and life you truly want
Discover a peaceful way to step off the âStay or Goâ merry-go-round, get clear about your path forward and regain your sense of self and joy... whether thatâs individually or with your partner... without harming your family
Book Your 60 Minute Clarity CallLET'S BE HONEST...
Does This Sound Like You?
- You feel more like roommates than partners, sharing a mortgage and kids
- You feel guilty for wanting more, even though heâs ânot a bad guyâ
- You fantasise about being truly seen, valued and wanted
- Youâre exhausted from feeling like the only one invested in fixing things
- Youâre successful in every other area of your life but feel stuck in this one
IF YOU'RE NODDING ALONG...
You're most certainly not alone.
But here's the thing...marriages don't break overnight.
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They erode slowly, bit by bit, chipping away at you, until you wake up one day feeling like strangers sharing a home.
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The issue isnât that youâre âtoo muchâ or âoverreacting.â Itâs that subconscious beliefs and old patterns have been shaping your choices, leading to compromises in the most important relationship of your life.
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Every time you swallow your words to keep the peace, shrink yourself to avoid tension, or numb the pain with distractions, you reinforce patterns that started long before you met your partner.
But here's the thing I want you to know...
Itâs not necessarily about leaving your marriage
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Itâs about leaving behind the unconscious stories and patterns that have led you both to feel disconnected...
and creating new ways of being that allow both of you to show up fully.
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When you live from a place of fundamental self-worth, the path ahead becomes clear. You can speak up for what you need, build mutual understanding and step forward with confidence; whether that means deepening your connection with your partner or redefining your future.
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The change you want starts the moment you decide you want it to be better.Â
Imagine yourself instead, 90-Days from now...
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Speaking your mind without tiptoeing around feelings, and feeling genuinely heard
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Sleeping peacefully because you have clarity and direction... no more 3am spirals
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Feeling like yourself again; vibrant, confident and fully present
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Your kids seeing what healthy communication and connection look like
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Either genuinely enjoying your partnerâs company again, or feeling fully at peace with the decisions you make together or individually
THAT'S EXACTLY WHY I CREATED...
A system for professional women and couples, designed to help you heal old patterns, reclaim your voice and create the love and life you actually want.
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If your goal is to stay, you can do it together and build deeper intimacy, trust and understanding.
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If your path is different, youâll have clarity and confidence to move forward with peace.
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Book Your 60 Minute Clarity CallInside Thrive, you will:
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⢠Understand, with clarity and compassion, why you feel stuck, conflicted or disconnected and finally make sense of patterns that may have followed you for years
⢠Reconnect with yourself on a deeper level, so you are no longer looking outside yourself for answers, reassurance or permission
⢠Break free from cycles of overthinking, self-doubt and emotional exhaustion and experience a growing sense of calm, steadiness and inner certainty
⢠Learn how your past experiences have shaped your beliefs, behaviours and relationship dynamics, so you can consciously choose who you want to be moving forward
⢠Rebuild trust in yourself and your decisions, so you are no longer living in limbo, but moving forward with quiet confidence and self-respect
⢠Feel emotionally stronger, more grounded and more in control of your life, regardless of what you ultimately choose for your relationship
⢠Become the version of yourself who no longer abandons her own needs, suppresses her truth, or settles for less than she deserves
⢠Experience a profound shift not just in your relationship, but in how you see yourself, how you show up and what you believe is possible for your future
â˘Â Have the opportunity to work with your partner in joint sessions and work on not only improving your relationship, but make it stronger than ever, should you choose to do so
You can experience this work in two waysÂ
Here's what's included when we work together 1:1 in Thrive VIP
The THRIVEÂ Transformation hub
Everything you need to reclaim the strong and confident woman you truly are. This is total transformation in the privacy of your own home - no more masking, no more walking on eggshells, no more quietly dying inside. The only limits here are the ones you've been accepting - and you're about to shatter those completely.
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BONUS TRAININGS
Stop feeling invisible while he thinks he's being the perfect partner. You'll both learn how to voice your wants and needs in a way you can both hear and act on.
And when the tension is rising and you don't want another shouting match, you'll have the tools to de-escalate a row and have a meaningful discussion. This isn't avoidance, this is resolution.
PRIVATE 1:1 COACHINGÂ SESSIONS
When we're learning and growing, we all need someone to hold and support us on that journey. Whether you have the VIP or Elite option, I am here to help you see the things you can't quite see and move you forward to the next step. This is unique support tailored only to you. Because everyone's journey is unique and so are you.Â
unlimited 1-1 WHATSAPP COACHING SUPPORT
When life is happening and things are changing, you need more than an hour of 1-1 support a week. With this unlimited support, you will have me in your back pocket whenever you need me. Because life happens everyday and some things just can't wait.Â
Thrive Elite Private 1:1 Coaching is designed for professional couples who: Â
- Are ready to move beyond the âstay or goâ cycle and create real, lasting change instead of staying stuck in groundhog-day sameness
- Want deep, personalised support to uncover the why behind their patterns and heal old wounds that keep them compromising or settling
- Have experience with therapy or personal development and value being witnessed, guided and challenged to grow
- Understand this is an investment in their future and are committed to showing up fully for their own transformation and empowerment
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Thrive is not a course. Itâs not traditional therapy or counselling.
This is a private 1:1 transformational coaching experience, where you get direct access to me as your strategic partner, to help you navigate this critical stage of your relationship while transforming every area of your life.
Itâs designed for ambitious, driven women and couples who are feeling stuck and want to:
â Stop 3am spiralling and know exactly what to do with your life. No more endless loops about whatâs next
â Speak your truth with confidence, set boundaries that actually stick and handle even the difficult conversations with clarity
â Transform your relationship into genuine connection, whether thatâs rebuilding together or stepping into a new chapter with confidence
â Model authentic love for your children, showing them what healthy communication and connection really look likeÂ
Bottom line? You want your life to truly change. To move beyond relationship limbo and reconnect with your joy, your confidence and your sense of self; either together with your partner or on your own.
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HI THERE , I'M PASCALE LANE
Transforming stuck relationships isnât just something I teach; itâs something Iâve lived.
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Before becoming a therapist, I was searching for answers just like you. Being married to a neurodivergent man, growing up with a critical mother, I found myself with two young daughters, feeling paralysed and uncertain about the future of my marriage.
I know first-hand what itâs like to feel disconnected from the person whoâs supposed to be âyour personâ; slowly losing yourself and seeking moments of happiness or connection in work, food, alcohol or other distractions... anything to avoid conflict or the disappointment of feeling trapped and unheard.
I created Thrive because traditional therapy, while helpful, wasnât enough for many clients to experience real breakthroughs.
I saw clients return week after week, sharing how they felt, yet in between sessions, they would fall back into the same cycles. Simply talking about the past wasnât enough to create lasting transformation or stronger connection in their relationships.
By training as a transformational coach and giving clients practical exercises to understand how trauma and upbringing shaped their self-concept, I saw everything start to change.
Thrive was born from this approach. Over the past 10 years, it has helped hundreds of women reconnect to themselves, break old patterns and regain their sense of self and joy; without damaging their family.
Hereâs the thing I want you to know:
Itâs not necessarily your relationship that needs to end; itâs the old ways of being that led you both here.
If youâre ready to move past analysis paralysis and feel alive and connected again, it would be my pleasure to guide you through Thrive.
And if your goal is to rebuild the connection rather than leave, you can do the course together with your partner. Many of my clients have completed Thrive alongside their husbands and achieved profound results; stronger intimacy, trust and understanding and a renewed sense of partnership.
Jonie took back control and created a new life
"Thank you Pascale! I canât sing your praises highly enough."
You came into my life at a time when I needed to make some changes but I was scared and I was stuck. You not only helped me out of that situation but have helped me to transform my life. It is just fantastic. I am so grateful to you!
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Sandra got clarity on who she really is and what she wants in her life
"I feel clear about me"
Pascale has taught me how to look closely at my life and unpick everything so I feel clear about me. She has an amazing, friendly and professional approach to everything with a best friend twist. Has a great book to read to get an insight into her work and to start you on your journey to being the best you.
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Lucy broke the cycle of trauma so her children can thrive now too
"I am a much better Mummy thanks to you"
You helped me understand my past so I could change my childrenâs future. There is no price I wouldnât pay for that!
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You can experience this work in two ways
100% Satisfaction guarantee
 Commit to doing the work, complete the modules and worksheets alongside our calls and I know you'll see results!
If you're not happy, we'll agree a resolution together.
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