So what about your past love relationships.. How has that worked out for you? Do you look back and see any similarities in your previous partners? Do you have a type? Have they all been good? Has your love-story always been positive?

What is that type?  What is it you attract into your life and why do attract that type? How does that make you feel about yourself?

How have your early relationships through your teens, early adult life and up to now, informed the person that you are now and how does that make you show up in your relationships today? Are all men bastards or are they reliable and trust worthy? Maybe you have yourself a ‘gooden’ or are still waiting for him to show up, but you know that he’s out there and its just a matter of time before he shows up.

I think when we look back at our past relationships it can be really helpful to knowing what we want in the future.

Hopefully your past relationships have not been too disastrous and have all been helping you get a bit closer to what you want from your long term relationship now as an adult.

But sometimes it doesn’t work out like that and sometimes were still practicing .

A lot of the women that I work with are still trying to find their Happy Ever After but need to have a little bit more awareness of what they are attracting into their life before they can actually settle to find what they actually truly deserve. A lot of the work that I do on my 3 month program is looking at past relationships and what love looked like to them growing up, looking at mindset, goals and really getting a much clearer idea of who you are, how you are showing up and what you are inviting into your life.

So if you are able to have a think about where you are now and where you have been, what are the similarities and what are your lessons to learn? That can be a really good way of seeing what you need to change to get to the place you really want to be.

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