What is the biggest way couples miscommunicate?

Ironically, the biggest miscommunication is lack of communication. So what do I mean by this? Well, often couples can fall into the trap of assuming that the other person knows what they’re thinking. I speak and write about this quite a lot because communication (or...

Are you an ‘enabler’?

What is an enabler and are you one? An enabler is somebody who helps their loved one, partner in the case of my work, to be helpless, to be rescued. In situations where one partner is always, or not always but usually, the victim, with that comes a rescuer and even...